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Visitors Always Welcome

CDI-NYC’s CrossGender Community frequently has visitors from across the country as well as many European countries.  If you’re visiting the Big Apple, check us out.  For current information, please visit our meetup group mu  (CDI-NYC’s Cross-Gender Community), email us at CDIcommunity@gmail.com or call our hotline between 5:00 PM and 10:00 PM on Wednesday (212-564-4847)


GenderCrossing Dinner Party
Every Wednesday - Doors open 5PM

The heart of our organization is the weekly GenderCrossing Dinner Party held every Wednesday evening.  Explore your gender identity at this informal dinner. This particular event is not open to men, only CD's and transgender women.

Bring your clothes and make-up and we will provide a semi-private dressing room and well-lit make-up station.

Doors open at 5 pm for changing and socializing. Sit down dinner is at approximately 7:30.
Dinner cost is $20 for guests and Members. Note that after 3 visits, guests are asked to join our cooperative association.

Questions, call 212-564-4847 after 5:00PM on any Wednesday or email our president, Allison at 



And if you need extra help, we are now offering low cost 45 minutes makeovers by Mia, a licensed cosmetologist at our safe, secure clubhouse prior to our dinner parties. - Appointment necessary.

Mia is a CDI member and knows how to feminize problematic areas of a male face like 5 o'clock shadow and a large jaw line.

Other Events

Please visit our meetup group mu  (CDI-NYC’s Cross-Gender Community) to find a complete list of activities.  These activities change constantly but include movie nights, seminars and dinners, parties, and dancing.  Our group loves to party so check back often.  Some events are at CDI-NYC on West 47th Street, NYC, while others are out in the local community.  We are located close to Restaurant Row and the excitement of Times Square.  Our changing and make-up stations are always available before and after these events and you can walk from CDI-NYC to the event or take a cab or Uber.